Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Ramesh and Ganesh Take Us to the Slums and Dadar Flower Market

We met up with the group the following day as our new Indian guides, the kids from the previous day, took us by train to a slum outside of Bombay, where their families live. Our guides name's are Ganesh and Ramesh and it was really a unique and eye opening tour of India’s largest city.  Most of us have already preconceived ideas about these places. 

Mark with Professor Action Figure Chad
I think we tend to picture Skidrow in Los Angeles, which is a den of vice, drug use, and mental instability mixed in with a bit of gang violence.  The slums may have any and all of these things but they are by and large the suburbs of the poor.  They do not tend to steal from one another; they tend to protect each other as they know they need their neighbor’s vigilant eyes, and they really are communities on a monumental scale.



 From the moment we entered we were treated like rock stars.  Kids ran up to us and swarmed down upon us.  We signed autographs; took pictures; and shook a 1,001 happy and excited hands.  At one point they started screaming, chanting, and clapping their hands for us—it was surreal.  For half a day we all understood what it meant to be famous.

Inside the home of one of Ramesh's relatives
We visited the home of Ramesh’s family and saw how they live in the slums.  They keep the insides of the homes very clean and at the end of the day they roll out a flat pad and sleep on it.  They have no running water but they do have electricity and many of the homes have one fan inside of them.  They dump their trash on the outskirts of their row of homes and this of course creates a dumping field around the entire perimeter of the slum. 

This is also where they go to the bathroom, but for urination the boys/men tend to pee wherever it is convenient; that means they pee everywhere!  They pay rent to live on the land and the landlord tends to be a boss-man, who according to the locals, is your ordinary run of the mill organized crime boss, a.k.a., a mafia Don.

I cannot explain the love these people have in their hearts for others.  Not one person in the slums asked us for a rupee.  I was asked by one man for my sunglasses, but I get that everywhere and at the time we were still not in the slums. 

They have a school directly outside of the slums for kids to learn to read if their parents can afford it, and some of them even have rickshaws to earn a living.  The people in the slums see themselves differently from the beggars.  The beggars live on the streets and get by off of charity from others, or from scams, schemes, pick-pocketing, etc., while those living in the slums have homes and in order to have that home they must work and find incomes to sustain their families.  If you told them they were homeless they would have a bone to pick with you, because they live in a home, even if it is of meager means.


After the slums, the boys took us to Flower Market (Dadar), which was located back in Bombay.  Dadar Market is breathtaking.  Most foreigners never see this market and as we looked around, we did not see another white face in the place. 




Flowers are loaded in buckets and are found in every shape and color.  They are piled in baskets three feet high and are strewn into necklaces and wreaths and tiaras.  Stall after stall is filled with their majesty and there are so many there is hardly room to walk.  This was definitely a highlight of Bombay and should go on every traveler’s bucket list of things to see before dying; absolutely gorgeous.  For .20 I purchased a dozen roses for Annie and probably could have got them for a dime if I had bothered to haggle.

Finally, after Dadar Market we went to get a bite to eat and some of the group went to see Ganesh Temple, but because security hassled us about our cameras (evidently they fear Mormon terrorists; no joke), Annie and I decided to watch everyone’s bags and just chill for a while. 

We had initially planned on trying to provide meals for the kids in the slums from funds provided by the Associated Student Government at Mesa State College, but it turned out to be a mammoth-sized undertaking that probably would have taken a week alone to coordinate.  Instead, we bought some kids supper and decided to attack the problem from a different angle; you know, teach a man to fish sort of thing.  That was when the epiphany came to me…

Hookah in Bombay

India Gate
Our first few days in Bombay were a blur: we visited markets, haggled over goods, walked until our feet were blistered, and enjoyed the local fare and people. It was my birthday so we decided to go to a hookah bar.  Hookah is flavored tobacco and is basically smooth tobacco mixed with molasses and a myriad flavors.  We had apple mint and strawberry.  It was a lot of fun.  The bar was located on top of a building and they covered the surface in sand, tents, couches, Arabian drapery, while Indian techno music softly reverberated in the background. 


The place where we smoked the hookah was pretty sheik and came with a 250 rupee cover, which is $5 cover charge and a lot of money here.  Therefore, we were hanging out with the elite at this place.  Everyone else was dressed to the nines while we loafed about in our sweaty shorts, sandals, and shirts.  I'm sure we were quite the site to see.

Ganesh and Ramesh

The next day we found a couple of children to act as our guides (they actually found us) and jumped on a boat and went to one of Bombay’s most popular attractions.  It is Elephanta Island and an UNESCO World Heritage Site—basically that means the site is old or the culture that made it are no longer around.  Contrary to what the name implies, there are no elephants on the island.  Instead, the place is the home to the only three headed Shiva in the world. 


The shrine is cut directly from the rocks in the cliffs, as is the temple itself.  It has been compared by many as the Petra of India.  Most come here to worship Shiva and it is considered a holy place, but for Annie and me it is another great piece of art and a culture’s proud heritage.

We spent half of a day touring the island and taking in the spectacular rock carvings and then we returned to Bombay.  Annie and I were wiped because we both picked up colds along the way, so we turned in early. 


The extreme temperature difference seems to do it as I rarely ever get colds in the U.S. but usually get one per trip while traveling.  Luckily they last no longer than a few days. 

The nice thing is, I’ve had the local water a few times now and have yet to get sick.  We’ve eaten ice cream, which is a majority/third-world no-no, and we had their yogurt, another no-no in India, and an ice cream shake, a slurpee made with local water/ice, and we’ve eaten whatever our hearts desire.  I think my stomach may have been made for international travel.

Saturday, September 3, 2011

The Taj Mahal Hotel and the Terror Attacks

(1) Taj Mahal Hotel
Over one year ago a pretty significant terror attack happened here in Bombay.  It was no 9/11-Two Towers catastrophe, but not because the terrorists did not want it to be.  Most reading this probably remember the attacks carried out by these terrorists at the Taj Mahal Hotel on November 28.  The reason they attacked the Taj Hotel is because it is the most expensive hotel in India and for the terrorists, it represented western opulence and decadence… and an opportunity to strike fear into the hearts of "white people" the world over. Their message: "we will find you in your richest hotels; nowhere is safe.”
(2)
What most do not know is that the Taj Hotel was only one of eight coordinated attacks upon Bombay that day.  The terrorists had planned to kill over 5,000 people and they attacked in South Bombay, Chhatrapati Shivaji Terminus (train station) Oberoi Trident, Leopold CafĂ©, Cama Hospital, Nariman House, and the Metro Cinema. 
According to Peter Foster, who published an article on this subject: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/asia/india/3529804/Bombay-terror-attacks-Why-the-Taj-Mahal-Hotel-was-chosen.html, the National Security Guards were brought in and they were quite effective at ending the violence, but not so effective at minimizing collateral damage.  A local on the ground said that western Special Forces go in with SWAT teams and snipers, while Indian Special Forces solve their terror problems by blowing $%@^ up.  They did exactly that.  They named it Operation Black Tornado and unleashed their fury upon the Pakistani members of the Lashkar-e Taiba—a terrorist organization centered out of Pakistan.  The result was that 295 people died; among those were six Americans.
(3)
As stated, their goal was mainly the Taj Hotel and the surrounding area, as they were targeting a very specific demographic that frequented the hotel; those people being: India’s leaders, politicians, white tourists, foreign investors, and the country’s new economic heavy hitters.
I explained all this because we are staying exactly one block away from the Taj Hotel and that is why the managers of the guesthouse we arrived at were being such sticklers about not letting us stay there.  It just so happens that the terrorists stayed in these very kind of guesthouses and were coming and going at all hours (like us) and they kept adding new people into the rooms at all hours (like our group had been doing) and because of these factors, new rules were created for travelers to more easily track them and their whereabouts.
(4) The Taj as it Stands Today
I want to be clear that this area is not dangerous.  It has not been dangerous in the past and is not a dangerous place to be right now.  Like New York, it was randomly attacked and that attack does not make New York or Bombay inherently more or less safe than they were before the attacks.  The goal of terrorism is the leverage of fear: for a minimal price they get a maximum bang for their buck.  Terrorism’s mission is to change the psyche into thinking violence is just around the corner when statistically, nothing could be further from the truth.  
(5) The DC Snipers
Think back a few years ago in Washington D.C.; Steven Levitt, author of Superfreakanomics, pointed out that in a typical year, D.C. experiences fifty murders.  In 2002, however, that average stayed the same but ten of those murders resulted from shootings that caused panic to set in, ultimately paralyzing the entire area in fear.  The culprits were two men acting as snipers, picking off random individuals from the back of their car.  They were domestic terrorists and their ten coordinated attacks did not change the average death toll in the area for the year, but because they were coordinated, everywhere felt as they were the next to die.  It is psychological warfare and it plays to our darkest fears that tell us: "the world is not safe and you are about to die."  That is, in part, why we visit some of these places; we wish to confront those very fears.

(6)
But I digress: as it was, Chad—the leader of the OutDoor Program, Annie, and I were looking for breakfast and accidentally wandered into Leopold CafĂ©.  We sat down and found out this was the very same cafĂ© that had been attacked on that fateful day.  The place has been restored, for much of the damage came from the Indians blowing up the terrorists, but they left the bullet holes and a shattered bullet-ridden window as reminders of the carnage and as a pull for tourists to frequent their establishment. 

I bet the terrorists never counted on Robert Merton’s economic Law of Unintended Consequences: the terrorists wanted to drive fear into the hearts of travelers and scare them away from India, which, in turn, would hurt India’s economy and its already poor population.  However, the terrorists inadvertently turned on a whole new generation of travelers onto the already famous spot.  The bullet holes now drive dumb tourists like me to a place where mafioso figures and backpackers the world over had been frequenting for decades.  The Taj Hotel has also been remodeled as most of its bottom floor was destroyed; they are open for business again as well.


Reporting from Bombay and one of the largest cities in the world...






Delhi has a Penis and Bombay has a Vagina

(1)
The title is not meant to convey that one city is more gender specific or gender symbolic than the other; rather, I just want to point out the differences between the two cities, much like the little kid from "Kindergarten Cop" did years back.

To say that Bombay is different from Delhi is an understatement. In Delhi, nearly everyone spoke English, which made it really easy to communicate and get around.  Here in Bombay, however, most people speak Hindi and very little English.  Also, in Delhi, the temperature hovered somewhere around 70 degrees because it was winter there, which was just about perfect for Annie and me.  While in Bombay, it is the middle of winter and still close to 85-90 degrees, with 99% humidity; it is not unbearable but most of us are slowly melting as we try to acclimate to the moist environment.  

The Cows of Delhi
And finally, the last major contrast is the scarcity of cows here; in Delhi they roamed the streets and really added to the ambiance of it all, while Bombay lacks the sacred-bovine-beauties aimlessly ambling about its streets.  Not that these differences are bad, because such is not the case.  They both have a lot of different things to offer the intrepid traveler… although I am very sad to have not found one snake charmer in city of 22 million people.  My old motto is that cobras and pit-vipers make an ordinarily bland city taste great—they are like salt on your food; no meal is complete without cobras at the table blowing you kisses.

The Cows are Much Smaller in Bombay
Our plane touched down at 8:30 p.m. but by the time we got our taxi and found where the rest of the group had nested, it was two hours later and we were exhausted.  I opened the door to our cab and instantly stepped into a gutter of urine, waste, and feces—it was disgusting.  Welcome to Bombay!  The southern portion of India is where many people from around the world vacation to because of its warm temperatures and that means finding a place to stay here during the December and January months can sometimes be difficult.  

The guesthouse where our friends were staying was packed and when they tried to get us into their rooms to share for the night, the management freaked.  We offered to pay extra for the extra two people (us) who were being added to the rooms but they were adamant that we could not stay at their place.  We went round after round with them and it wasn't until Chad stepped in that we were able to convince them to let us stay for the night. The following day that we found out why.  

Stay tuned for the next exciting edition to find out why our manager freaked.... dun dun dun

Friday, September 2, 2011

The Caste System and Circular Reasoning

Most of our last day in Delhi was spent at New Delhi's Domestic/International Airport.  It was new and to pass the time we both read books; I read "Superfreakanomics" and highly recommend it to anyone.  There was a sign that promised free internet, but one had to have a cell phone to use it because they text you the code and that code only lasts for 1 hour.  A nice lady let me borrow her flashdrive encoded wifi receiver, but before we could blog her airplane arrived and that was that. I mentioned this once before, but to know India is to know that the cultural is paternalistic and heavily male dominated. 

It is also a culture stratified between classes, or castes, which, because of democracy has been diminished, but is very much alive and kicking, despite what the local upper-class will tell you.  There is a middle class emerging here, but it will be decades, maybe longer, before they are any kind of percentage of the population.  Over 60% of the country makes $1,000 a year or less, and because I don’t have the statistics available for the rest of the break down I can’t tell you how the rest shake out but I will say that the well-to-do make up about 10% and the rest fall somewhere way below that.

The reason I write about these things is because I like to educate others and because others ask me to explain many of the cultural caveats of foreign countries while we travel; however, I also bring this up because of what we experienced on the airplane, but I will return to that in a moment.

In India, only the rich/upper-class take planes while traveling to other parts of India.  India is a land filled with train tracks laid down by the British and they are and have been the main mode of transportation for over a hundred and fifty years.  Indians love their trains and they cost next to nothing to cover huge swaths of area.  For example, from Delhi to Mumbai by train in a first class compartment with sleeping quarters would have been about $50 a ticket, or half of that for a non-A/C compartment.  While our same day flights to Bombay (they call it Bombay still here in India, not Mumbai) were three times as much.  Of course we did not care about $150 same day ticket prices to cover a stretch of land that is roughly the equivalent of going from Colorado to Minnesota for such a great price, but only the rich would do such a thing in this country.  Side note: in Agra our chauvinistic taxi driver that Annie just loved, said, and I quote, “When I see you I see rich!”

We could have saved the money and taken the overnight 17 hour train ride, but we had saved over $500 a ticket already by flying into Delhi instead of Bombay (the others in our group flew directly to Bombay), which meant we were way ahead on our budget and had planned to spend that money elsewhere.  Therefore, we boarded our plane with all of us rich folk (because here we truly are rich) and got a bird’s eye view of how the 1st tier or the top caste treated those purportedly beneath them. 

We paid $4 extra to sit in exit row seating because it usually gives you all the leg room you want, but because it is exit row seating you are always asked by the airline if you are willing to jettison the emergency escape hatch outside the aircraft in the event of an emergency, per FAA guidelines.  The stewardess will ask you this question every time and you must answer “yes” or “no”.  If you are not willing you will be seated elsewhere. 

We were all asked the question, but the guy in front of us was talking on his cell phone, which he’d been asked to shut off but refused to do.  When asked, he stopped the stewardess and told her he was talking on his phone.  She politely asked him to shut off his phone per FAA guidelines and with an arrogant huff he gave her the “yes” and continued talking for another minute.  She waited patiently and then began her speech about the emergency exits, while he said, “Of course, of course… yes, yes, yes.”

By this point, I wanted to slam his head into the window and teach him some manners (this is my Achilles’ heel and frequently lands me in bad situations), but I refrained.  I hate to see anyone abusing the help and it is worse when it involves some form of male domination and it didn’t help that when lots were cast in life, this guy got the short end of the douche-bag straw.

I would be guilty of an over generalization if this was my only example, but sadly it is not.  The lady next to us would not open her bag of nuts with her own hands but snapped, “You open them” to the stewardess.

One cannot mistake the air of Indian-money here, as their clothing (like ours) sets them apart; that is, when you see them, which is only rarely.  The poor may be angry at times at their condition, but they are incredibly humble and their humility is evident everywhere you go.  The opposite is also true for a large part of the rich.  Culturally, it is how things have been here for thousands of years.  The castes separated them and those on top were superior and those on the bottom were equally inferior.  The system is self-perpetuating and mirrors social-Darwinism in that it goes something like this: I was born into money; therefore, my karma is good because I was born rich as I could not have arrived at the highest caste level if my karma was not good or if I had led a bad life in my previous existence; hence I am superior and your bad karma landed you in the socio-economic situation you currently find yourself in and that is why you are inferior.  You obviously were a rotten degenerate in your former life.

How can one argue against illogical constructs based in circular reasoning?

Last night, as I was blogging outside our hotel, a wealthy young lady could not get her log-in information correct on the computer and rather than deal with the situation in a normal and respectable manner, she proceeded to berate the staff and then she descended into a tirade, cussing at the young man until she felt he was thoroughly humiliated.  Then she got up and demanded he fetch a cab for her, which he promptly did.

 Ask anyone that knows me and they will tell you I would have confronted that person if we had been in the States, but here I always try to remember I am in a foreign country with different cultural standards and beyond any of that, I try to act like an ambassador of my country, my people, my religion, and even my college (because they footed most of the bill for my part of this trip and even gave us $1,000 to spend in the slums on the children).  Therefore, I try to keep my mouth shut, although I also tend to get inoculated from keeping my mouth shut, which probably means I’ll be blogging about this subject again in the future.

From Bombay, one of the poorest cities in the world and home to many of the kindest as well…    

The Last of Agra and Delhi

We stayed at the Taj until it was getting dark and then we high-tailed it back to the train station. Once there we had an hour to kill, so we mingled with the homeless kids, feeding them chocolate and the rest of our goodies.  For about $3 I had my shoes completely mended, re-sown, glued, and cleaned.  I am hard on my hiking boots and even when I buy the expensive ones I tend to get less than 6 months out of them.  He just walked up and whipped out his shoe repair kit and went to town on them.  I did not know they could be repaired but he did it in less than 10 minutes.

Another lady came up to us and warned us that the kids we were associating with were very very naughty, which probably meant one of two things: one, they were thieves and pick-pockets or two, they were understood to be Dalit or "untouchable" in the caste system.  I now tend to think the lady was trying to state the latter and not the former.  We didn't care either way, we had nothing on our person and were not worried in the slightest.  They were cute kids.  However, after hanging out for a while the older kids ran off and when they returned they were carrying a 20 lb dead monkey in a bed sheet. 

The thing was rotting, half the innards were gone, and they said they would not remove it from us until we gave them 10 rupees (which is about .20); instead, I licked the dead carcass, which made them vomit and run away, but not before I stole all their money just to teach them a lesson.

The Shoe-menders











Not having paid their extortion fee, we said our goodbyes to the ingenious little scallywags and boarded our train for Delhi.  Once on board we quickly figured out why the ticket was only .85; they packed everyone in like sardines and even with standing room only, it was extremely uncomfortable.  We had purchased seats and were able to sit on the hard benches, but others purchased the standing room only tickets and one lady in particular was bogarting our benchy-goods and decided to hone in on the sitting-action.  For an hour she tried to squeeze Annie out, even though there wasn't an inch of room, but she gave up at last and with her doughy skin and supple-big-lady-breasts (I think there were four of them), she collapsed upon Annie and fell asleep right on top of half of her body.

That was the longest 4 hours of both of our lives.

The next morning we slept in at our guest house and then went to the airport to purchase tickets to Bombay, which is a thousand miles south and all the way to the west on the coast of the Indian Ocean.

To sum up Delhi cannot be done in words, but here is the best I’ve got: both Annie and I loved it, but it helped that it is winter here and only 70 degrees.  We would never come here in the summer when temperatures soar way past the hundreds with 99% humidity and the smells are so rank they will make the butt of a dead rat appetizing. The temperate heat kept the smells down and the wandering cows were a sight to see.  The scams are everyone but we walked away without having lost a cent and we also learned why some have such a hard time here.  It is not for everyone, but for those willing to take a few chances, it pays out dividends.  

Taj Majal and the B-donk-i-donk That Got Us There

Annie Did Not Like Feifel Going West With Us


We were pretty excited about heading to Agra, aside from Feifel, the mouse that freaked out Annie on the train.  Agra is home to the Taj Mahal. Three and a half weeks earlier we had been doing a slide show at Colorado Mesa University about our Mexican Shoe Caravan this last summer and after it was done, the director of the OutDoor Program, Chad Thatcher, invited us along on this trip.  The rest was a blur as we prepared our visas and finished out our terms and finals… now we were in India and we were finally catching up with ourselves; unreal.


One of the Gates Heading into the Taj
But back to reality: in Agra, we hailed a cab and ended up unwittingly hiring a male chauvinist ba-donk-i-donk (donkey's rear) for a driver, as he refused to acknowledge Annie’s questions and when he did answer her he did so by speaking to me.  For those that do not know, India is a very male dominated society and suffers because of it.  100,000 women are treated for burns every year because they over cooked their husbands food or did something equally petty that their spouse was not pleased with.

The male/female ratio is off by 20% in favor of the men because 13 million baby girls have been murdered through infanticide in the last 20 years as having a son brings prestige, while having a girl means debts by way of dowries that cannot be paid by poor families at the time of marriage.  Recently the dowry was made illegal in India to help address the problem, but the biases felt toward women will likely continue on for generations.

All that aside, I cannot begin to describe the beauty of the Taj; so many times in life you feel disappointed when you see something with your own eyes after it has been bragged up by the world.  This was not one of those times.  It takes your breath away.  It is massive!  It is gargantuous (I don’t think this is a word, at least according to spell-checker) and it rises into the air as if you are seeing some heavenly majestic white marble edifice that should not possibly exist in this world.  The Taj is solid marble covered in black onyx verses from the Koran.  It is truly second to none.

Check Out That Smog!




For around $2 we hired a guide and just like in "Slumdog Millionaire" he made up the history of the place as we toured one of the seven man-made wonders of the world.  He told us that the king who built the place had 14 children, but another guide walked by, laughed, and said, “He only had 6 children.”

Our guide, Asif (Au-sif, like Auto with a sif), quickly countered with, “Oh yes, they had 14 children but 8 died immediately after childbirth… the queen was very sad.”



We laughed and enjoyed ourselves as our guide took pictures of us jumping over the Taj, or holding it in our hands, or holding it up over our heads, or cupping the main minaret with our pinky finger and thumb.

The Taj is a mausoleum that was built for the king of India’s third wife.  He loved her dearly and she had three final requests (after burying her 8 imaginary kids) before she died.  She asked that he take care of their 6 kids; she asked that he never marry again; and finally, she asked that he build a final resting place for her that the whole world would never forget.  He did exactly that.  He had planned on building a black marble replica for his own mausoleum, but before he could bankrupt India with the second monumental feat, his son overthrew him and locked him away in prison, where he died alone.  Very sad, I know.


I do not know how much of this information is correct as I have never studied Indian history, aside from the British colonization of the country from the 17th c.—1947, when it became an independent nation, but I think most of his information was somewhat in the vicinity of the truth.  There is a saying here in India: "An Indian will never tell a lie but if he does not have the answer he will make one up.” 

Okay, I made that quote up, but only because of the loss of my 8 children.